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Tracey Cox is one of the world's foremost
writers on sex and relationships - her new book, Superflirt,
teaches you how to get what you want without saying a word.
Read on for a sneak preview of how to go from so-so to supersexy
in the blink of an eye.
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Alter your body
language to look and feel instantly sexier and more
confident. Within ten seconds of meeting you, the
person you're meeting will have made up their mind
what sort of person they think you are. Be aware
of your posture. Hold your head high, put your shoulders
back, take a deep breath and let your body relax
into it. Uncross everything. Smile. Fantastic! |
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Do you really
believe you need to be beautiful to have them lined
up and taking a number? Don't be daft! Research
shows we're most comfortable with people who are
similar in attractiveness to us. So you don't need
to look like the latest heartthrob to be seen as
sexy. In fact, it's the good looking who should
be anxious. |
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Check you're on the same wavelength by seeing if
the person you're keen on mirrors your movements.
Cross a leg, see if they follow. Wait a few minutes
and try something else. If they're doing the opposite
to mirroring and changing their position so you're
racing to keep up, back off - they're not ready
to connect yet. |
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Use the word
'we' as soon as you possibly can. "We're going
to get fat if we eat all this, aren't we?",
"Shall we have another drink?" Linking
the two of you conversationally subliminally plants
the idea of linking up in other ways.
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If you want
to connect with someone, there is no better way
to do it than through touch. The tiniest, briefest
touch can have an electric effect on how somebody
feels about you. Ways to do it? Point something
out ("Gosh, look at that!") as you lean
in to lay fingers on their forearm. Pass something
(a drink, a pen, the menu) and brush fingers. |
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Getting completely
sloshed nearly always tops the list for Oh-my-god-I
can't-believe-I-did-that disaster dates. But there
are plenty of other ways to unwittingly put someone
off. These include: resting your chin on your palm,
one elbow on the table (you look bored and you're
hiding your face from view); awkward hands (wringing
or fiddling signal nerves and anxiety); or not moving
(shy, nervous people stand very still, enthusiastic,
passionate people move around a lot). |
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You've done your
homework and all that flirting's paid off. Here
are the secret signs that show someone is ready
for sex. A man will touch his face more than usual,
hold his head high, his eyes will appear shiny and
moist, his pupils are large and dilated, his lips
are red and swollen and his nostrils flare. A woman
will stroke her neck loads, her cheeks will change
colour - she'll blush and glow, then go pale again,
her eyes will seem glittery and sparkly, and she'll
touch her mouth and lips with her fingertips. |
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